Friday, 26 December 2014

朋友,你好吗?

突然想起了你。不懂你最近好吗?在天堂还习惯吗?你走了差不多要四个月了。我们都很想你。

你的第一个圣诞节过得如何?天堂一定很美丽吧?天堂里的圣诞节有下雪吗?天堂里的晚餐丰盛吗?你有吃饱饱吗?你一定过得很快乐吧?快要新年了。一定有很多人陪你倒数吧?
希望你在天堂过得很好。不要忘记我们哦!

多么希望时间可以倒流。多么希望你现在还可以回答我的问题。让我亲耳听见,亲眼看见你很好。
我真的很后悔没有厚脸皮再约你出来。我真的感觉很遗憾。遗憾于我们的友情太短暂了。很遗憾我们只是谈了两个小时。那一晚我真的很快乐,认识了你。一个带了欢乐给身边的人的你。即使是我们的第一次见面,但是谢谢你让我觉得不陌生,很舒服,很快乐。

朋友,谢谢你曾经来过我的生活里。添加了欢乐、色彩、光明和美好的回忆。虽然短暂,但是很美丽。下一世可以再来到我的生活吗?下一世你还愿意成为我的朋友吗?但是下一世,我们的友情可以深厚一点吗?可以再久一点吗?

好了,我就此停笔吧。别担心。我哭过就会好了。你好好保重。来世再相见。。。


Friday, 24 October 2014

Pain

I used to think that when someone hurt me, I must also let them feel the pain I am going through as well. The truth is, what I have learned from the past was this is never going to work. The more pain you want them to feel, it will be only you feeling it. They will never understand how painful you are, they will never be able to really feel what you have been going through. Now that I recall what I did, I totally feel stupid by wasting my time on unnecessary thing. So why bother letting others feel the same pain as you? They wouldn't know, they wouldn't care too. No matter how similar the situation is, they are just not you, that is why they will never ever be able to feel the same pain as you do.

Let it go. Live a better life than them. That is when they started to realise that they shouldn't have hurt you. Holding onto something that makes you sad, make you feel pain and depressing does't means you are accepting it. It is only meant that you are in a denial state. Life is too short to dwell on unhappy things.

Live life in a simpler way. Why make your pathway so chaotic?

Saturday, 11 October 2014

永遠永遠 - JAMES楊永聰



人一生最後 能擁有什麼
足夠對抗全世界的 寂寞

我從不喊累 其實多脆弱
卻願意 去捍衛一個夢

夢裡面的妳 比任何人都珍貴
我盡全力 定格這一瞬間

我在所不惜 守護你所有
這一輩子 我所為何來 終於明確

我並沒有什麼超能力 改變明天
但有勇氣 不顧一切 來改寫今天
永遠永遠 都別認識眼淚 不說再見
得到什麼 失去什麼 都無所謂

我並不是非常的完美 很多缺點
但有信心 把妳眼前 變得很特別
永遠永遠 成為妳最重要的依靠
讓妳知道 幸福多好

Friday, 10 October 2014

傻子 Fool - 林宥嘉 Yoga Lin


等爱的人很多 不预设你会在乎我
难道一生的时间 都用来换 和你一个误会
谁能真的让谁 幸福到故事的结尾
何必那么的慌张
有时清醒 才是错误的开始

我不需要 也不重要
做一个傻子多么好
我不明白 也不需要明白
就让我这样到 老~~

谁能真的让谁 幸福到故事的结尾
何必那么的慌张
有时清醒 才是错误的开始
我不需要 也不重要
做一个傻子多么好
我不明白 也不需要明白
就让我这样就很好
没什么紧要
只需要你轻轻一个拥抱
就算不留下什么也无所谓
就算留下了什么也都珍贵 珍贵 珍贵~

做傻子多么好
我不明白 也不需要明白
就让我这样到老
这样到老

Sunday, 5 October 2014

她只不过是小女人,她不是超人。

让女人失望的不是你没有钱,而是在你身上看不到希望。不要让一個女人適应孤獨。一旦適應了就不再需要你了。人人都說,女人不要太強,太獨立,不然會不招人喜歡。可是女人若是不強,不獨立,誰又會在她最無助的時候伸出援手?所以女人只能讓自己堅強 ,在没有人的角落裏獨自療傷。机会错过了,再也不能回头。当她保持沉默的时候,证明了她放弃追寻,放弃期待,放弃希望。超人也会累,更何况是人?经历了太多的绝望,就不会再想去期望。就算不舍,就算被人家说无情,冷血,永远都比不过去她所承受的所有伤痛痛。人的转变是因为累了。他们的改变只是想为了放过自己活在痛苦里。不管说什么,最清楚的,唯有是自己。

Saturday, 4 October 2014

Dad Where are We Going《爸爸去哪儿》

《爸爸去哪儿》 第二季终于大结局了。在这个节目当中,我学习了很多事情。虽然它只不过是一个节目,但是里面的真诚,纯情,真实感都依依地呈现出来。
这节目让我想家了,让我更想要陪家人多一点,更加让我懂得珍惜能和家人聚在一起的时光。自从离乡背井,到别的州,别的国家读书以后,我更加珍惜每一次可以和家人的聚会。

人生真的很无常。每一个人都不懂何时会离开人间,没有人会知道下一秒会发生什么事。

有时候我真的很不想长大!因为当我一天一天地长大的时候,爸妈会一天一天地老去。但是同时我很想长大,因为长大了就可以保护他们。以前的我,常常许下的愿望都是想要更大的家,想要豪华车等等。但是慢慢地,这些都不是我最想要的。我现在最想要的是家人平安,健康,快乐就好。经历了那么多事以后,我更学习了没有东西是可以永远,可以一辈子。但是,爸妈会用他们的一辈子去爱你,守护你,直到他最后一口气,他们最终关心的不是他们自己,而是你有穿得暖,吃得饱吗。

在这世界上,没有任何人的爱,可以胜过你家人对你的爱。这是真的。爸妈给你的爱,无私,不求回报,无限。他们其实才是我们生命中的超人。不管外面风雨再大,只要有他们在,就算再大的暴风雨,他们也会把你的世界变成永远的晴天。不管世界多么的黑暗,他们都会不顾一切地保护你的光明世界。家,才是真正的爱屋。回家,才是永远是最好的旅途。

每一次的离开,我都会流泪。不是因为懦弱,而是非常不舍得,也因为感到害怕。害怕有一天离开了,再也回不了家。所以我常常会把每一次的见面,当成最后一次。很多人常常说我想太多,觉得我傻。但是当你在生命中尝试了很多次的遗憾的时候,你也会和我一样,拥有相同的想法。所以因为这样,我爱上了摄影。因为只有照片才能把把每一个时光记载。所以不管和一样的人拍了很多次照片,当到了每一次聚会,我都会重新记载新的回忆。有些事情,错过了,就是错过了。时间是不会等人的。它也更加不会倒流。

所以,对家人好一点吧!花多点时间陪陪家人。这种难得缘分不常有。他们永远都不可能跟你脱离关系。不管在吵闹,他们始终是你的家人。如曹格所说的,我们要 love each other.

最后,我要把这首歌献给大家。歌词很有意义。


Wednesday, 1 October 2014

Farewells

After losing two friends in my life (to be exact, one friend and one senior from high school) , I have learnt that life is really sometimes too short and so fragile. They can just say goodbye all of a sudden and never be able to come back again. Often, we feel regret that we didn't spend more time with them when we can and have hell lot of reasons to say "maybe next time". Since that two incident that happened way too fast that I couldn't even catch up, I have been feeling very devastating and super emotional. Even thinking about receiving the news just freaks me out. I now then become so afraid of saying goodbye to good people in my life. People that gave me a big positive impact to my life, bringing laughter and joy for me, doing favorite activities together, creating great atmosphere and memories together. 

From then on, I get insecure even way more easily than I used to be. I'm worried that, one day, someone will say goodbye forever to me again or I will say goodbye to everyone and made them sad for losing a friend, a family member. I am also worry about regretting for everything that I haven't do when I should have done it when I have the chance. So I tend to appreciate positivity that others have given me. Even the smallest thing can make a great impact in my life. I cherish the people actually give me time, be there for me when I needed somebody, talk to me and constantly make me happy. I don't need materials, I need a friend that actually brings me laughter, make me feel comfortable being around them. Even being miles away, they still talk to me once in awhile, asking me how am I, and tell me how much they miss me, facebook me, call me or text me or video call me just to catch up. Even if it was just a short text, short call, short video calling session, it warms my heart a lot a lot. I thank you for your effort ( you will know who you are, I don't need to mention). 

Sent a friend to airport this morning at 3am. People who know me will know that I don't usually stay up late. Despite being so tired, I don't mind to spend the last few hours with a great friend because we won't know when will we be able to meet again. Despite knowing him for only a month, but it seems like we have known each other for quite sometime. It is so hard to find someone that actually appreciates the beauty of a camera, a photo that may seems to be meaningless to other people. But for us, it has deep meaning in every photo we take. No matter it turn out good or bad, there is always an untold story in every single frame that only people who truly understand the beauty of it will know. I have to thank him for teaching me some tips as well and giving comments of my photos. I felt so alive again for doing something that I love so much and having a friend to do it with you is more fun than doing it alone. 
Thank you for you f1.4, 2.8 etc etc etc mate! Hope that we can meet again soon in the future and hunt places for great photo shootings again. I wish you all the best for your future and may all your dreams come true. Keep in touch okay? Don't forget to miss us once in awhile. It was a great pleasure to meet a friend like you. Thank you for your compliment as well. It has been soooo long I haven't heard of any compliment from other people already. It means a lot too that you appreciate my "Shelby pie" as well. Hahahah! No one has ever told me that it was f delicious. Thank you mate, I truly appreciate it. I will see you when I see you again. Thanks for the great time and great memories. Take care. x

Friends come and go, but all of them have their own purpose in your life. Good ones give u great memories and bad ones give u lessons to learn. No matter how long or how short is your friendship, it doesn't really matters actually. What matters is what you have learned from them. Don't regret on the length of time you get to know with them, but cherish the time you have with them and make each moment last. At the end of the day, the regrets you have, is not appreciating the moment that you are able to hang out with them, not doing the things you can do with them before everything is too late. 

Don't worry so much of the negative people in your life, focus on the positive ones. If that someone is giving a negative impact to your life, leave before is too late. In contrast, cherish the ones that give you positivity and don't let go of any chance that you are able to be with them. 

Cheers. 

Friday, 26 September 2014

The Fault in Our Stars

Just watched and it gave me a lot of lesson in it.


  • Life is too short to live with regrets.
  • Do it before everything is too late. 
  • Love before you have no more chances to love again. 
  • Live like everyday will be your last day. 

Thursday, 4 September 2014

Deaths Gave Me a Lesson Learned

Been hearing a lot of people passing away lately and it has been very saddening. From my parents' close friend, to my primary school classmate's mom to my friend and my senior in my high school. I felt so shocked when I received each news because I somehow couldn't accept the fact that they passed away at the age they are not suppose to...

Life can be so strong and so fragile at the same time. 


We have always been told that we have to learn how to appreciate life, people etc etc etc.. Unfortunately, at times I wonder how many people are actually doing it? Many people often regretted at the things they didn't do..

I want to ask, how many times you actually go and meet that somebody when you have receive a call saying "hey.. let's meet up.." from your friend(s)? Rarely and the most common answers are always:

  • "Now? Oh.. I am sorry.. I can't.. I have something on.." 
  • "Nah.. maybe next time.. I am busy at the moment.."
  • I am lazy to go out now.. maybe next time"

Notice that all the answers contain "NEXT TIME"? Have you guys ever wonder what if next time never come? RARELY! Because we always take things for granted that we live long, we will always be safe and sound, we will never say goodbye all of a sudden so soon etc etc etc... Until something bad happens.. People pass away, they can never come back and only we notice we have missed that one last chance to meet them, we have missed that one last chance to call them, we have miss that one last chance to talk to them.. From then on, we blame ourselves, we blame life, we blame time, we blame everything but it all begins with ourselves. We then start to think we should have meet them, should have visit them, should have call them etc etc etc... but everything is too late now. 

Time don't wait for people. Time was pause for anyone. We don't have time machine to turn back time. What has been done are done, we can't change, can't turn back, can't travel back to where we should have change our answer from "NEXT TIME" to "SURE", from "SHOULD HAVE" to where we can say "LET'S DO IT".  

I know that many of you might say "but we were really busy at that time. It is not that we don't want to do it". But what about the time when you have done with your busy? Did you return that call? Did you think about calling them out again? We rarely do that because you always think that you have much better things to do and that can wait then that waiting has become eternity. 

Start to do what you want to do. Start to say whatever you want to say. Start to show how much you love them. Start to appreciate the time and people you have. Do it for a good cause. 

Never wait again... 





Thursday, 17 April 2014

RIP Karpal Singh

Woke up and saw news about the loss of a superhero in Malaysia. 

He does not dress up in superhero costume nor he has superpowers. But what he has are a truthful heart, a great justice, a heroic spirit, and a name of Tiger of Jelutong that dress up in a suit. He is Karpal Singh. The Malaysia best lawyer and a role model to every lawyer. To some, he may just be an ordinary person, but to us Malaysians, he was our hope, our faith, and out hero. 

Dear Karpal, 
I guess you have been fighting too hard for us. It is time for you to rest in peace. Take care in the other world of peace. 

We will always remember you, Tiger of Jelutong, the Malaysian hero. 

(Photo source: Malaysiakini 2014)


RIP Michael Cornelius Selvam Vellu, Karpal's side.. 

Sunday, 16 March 2014

珍惜时间

"当你知道时间不多时,你就会慢慢去珍惜很多事情。"

Thursday, 13 March 2014

Missing Parts

Felt like blogging all of a sudden so here I am blogging..

So I have been back in Miri for a week plus almost two.. Feelings have been complicated since I was here. Sigh. Coming back here, I felt more tiring than I was back in KK working and driving almost 30 km to and back from work. Heart was frustrated, tiring, complicated, never peaceful and a lot more negative feelings.
I have notice that I have lost my happiness, my laughter, my cheerfulness and silliness.
Things have been not as good as before now. I miss home, I miss my baby boy, I miss my buddies that always never failed to cheer me up and made me laugh like mad cow. I don't care that I look ugly when I open my mouth widely and laughed out loud. What matter most is me being happy and forget about everything that made me feeling sad.

I don't know how long I can handle these negative feelings but I wish to be happy again..
I just simply wish to be happy after all the things that I have been through.. After so much have happened, I understand that being happy and healthy is very important. Despite having lots of wealth but you are not healthy and happy,wealth is nothing but just something extra.

I saw a video on Huffingtonpost today and I was inspired by a quote
"being rich isn't about how much you have, is about how much you give."

Here is the video..
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Saturday, 11 January 2014

我快撑不住了

不懂为何心感觉被压得很痛很痛,肩膀也觉得快要断了。突然会莫名地流泪。感觉真的好累。
我觉得我快不行了。我就如计时炸弹,随时都会爆发。
每晚偷偷地哭泣,又不能完全把情绪发泄完,那种压迫感,真的好苦,好苦。
我想我是真的累了。。。
好想放弃一切,好想休息。。。

Goodbye soon?

如果有一天我说了再见,请不要记得我,也不要忘了我。
If one day I have said goodbye, please don't remember me but don't forget about me.

Thursday, 20 June 2013

Thank you for your negative comments..

Just finished my exams few hours ago and I felt so relived... (Well, there is still two more papers next week)..
So I have done Engineering Mathematics yesterday and Electrical System today. Felt half of my stress has gone.

 I still remember I was an academically poor students especially in my additional mathematics during my high school. Today, I am dealing a much tougher maths as compared to additional mathematics, that is Engineering Mathematics. I still remember that I always get less than 40 marks for my additional mathematics during my high school. I remember a lot of people looked down on me when I said I wanted to study Engineering as my maths was really terrible, but guess what guys, I wanted to thank them for criticising and looking down on me because I can proudly tell you that I have gone through my foundation in engineering and I am now in my first year of engineering, final sem and if I passed all of my subject  I will be an official Mechanical Engineering Student.

Time flies, I still remember very clearly that during my form 5, I was nothing. Nothing to be proud of, my parents has nothing proud to show off their daughter as well but today, my parents are proud of me because I have gone through my high school life as a nobody and today I am an engineering student. I also still remember that some of my teacher looked down on me and make me felt so shameful in front of the class. Well, thank you teacher, I have got an A for my SPM for the subject you have taught. Because of your criticism, I am able to achieve better grades. I truly wanted to thank my tuition teacher who was there, listening to how I was badly criticised and helping me in any way to help me achieve a good grade. Also, to other teachers that have taught me before, I thank them for never looking down on a low grade students. I remember my form five class teacher, Chinese teacher and English teacher who was there to help me when I needed help though I am just nobody. They have never given up on me and still try to boost up my confidence in believing myself that I can do well. Without them, I will be nothing today.

Besides thanking my teachers, I would like to thank my parents for having such patience in raising a kid like me. I cried easily, I get upset easily, I am rude at times, I yell at them etc but they never have left me. Not even a single millimetre. Besides, I must say, my parents have been my driver to all the places for 20 years but they have never complained about being tired to send me etc. They will always make sure that I am always safe and sound no matter where I am. Though I may hurt their feelings but they have never complained about it to me. Some people may think that I am rude to my parents because we communicated like friends, but I love the way how we communicate because it is fun and this makes lesser stress while talking to them and I feel enjoy when we always make fun of each other like siblings and friends. They are my superhero. I am grateful enough for what I have now.

So, before you gave up, think about the people that who was/were/is/are always there for you. Life is tough and unfair, but if you fight for it, you will be there.
Have faith in yourself. Cheers!

Peace!

Tuesday, 15 January 2013

Negative First then the Positive Thoughts

Okay, it has been a long time since I've been always been fooled / cheated / betrayed / etc etc etc by people that I used to be very close with ( some of them of course).
I am really tired of these unnecessary "dramas" kept happening on and on and on again..
I must say, it is very irritating and annoying!
Sometimes I think to myself, why are they treating me like an idiot? I am really that bad? Am I really having such bad personalities that made them hated me so much? I just don't know.
Nobody dare to talk to me about my problem. Well, I might think that is right but u guys maybe couldn't accept it so there comes conflict and from then on, they will tell the others abt what they hate about you. One pass ten, ten pass thousand and soon lots of people will knew. Therefore lots and lots of people will started to hate you.

Sometimes, when someone is jealous about u, they'll started to making up fake stories and ruin your name.
To be honest, those who made this are really desperate. I just do not understand why do you guys like to make up stories to ruin others? Is your life that desperate? Sigh~
Do you think doing this will help you get more friends? Do you think you'll become famous?

Don't hate / get angry to the person that fooled u, cheated u, betrayed u, back stabbed u, hurt u & etc etc etc(bad ones) ; but thank them for it it because they have gave u a FOC lesson teaching u how to be sharper, smarter, tougher & stronger! =] U may blame urself being stupid, but they are the stupid ones. If u ask why? I'll say cuz they hated u but they givin u priceless experiences. ^^

让自己老婆成为全世界最幸福的女人

1 经常亲吻她,趁她不注意


2 过马路时牵她的手。即使吵架。

3 一定要有属于你们自己的房子,即使不大。


4 一起听她喜欢的歌和她爱看的电影,陪她感动。


5 让她躺在你的腿上,可以抚摸她的头发。


6 她洗澡的时候唱歌给她听,让她不觉得闷。


7 哄她吃她不爱吃但有营养的食物。


8 用情侣牙刷,然后把你的牙刷和她的偷偷换一下。


9 当她很累时给她捏捏肩,捏捏脚,然后挠她脚心逗她开心。


10 偷偷录下她走来走去和睡觉的样子。不管她耍赖还是威胁就是不删。


11 没有理由的抱抱她。


12 她写的东西我一定用心的看,读懂内心的那个她。


13 周末为她做她喜欢吃的东西,然后散步。


14 在大天广众之下背她或停下来拥抱她。


15 在街上走的时候不会离她超过1米远的距离。


16 进餐厅的门或出图书馆的时候一定为她拉门让她先走。


17 陪她买菜杀价,她做饭你做汤。


18 趁她半睡半醒间为她盖被子,醒来先看看熟睡的她,然后亲一下她的额头。


19 在她特殊时期为她端上热的红糖水,然后若无其事的看电视。


20 偶尔早上打电话给她,听她佣懒的声音然后问她想吃什么给她带回去。


21 给她取可爱的外号,只有你能叫。


22 手机和电脑的背景一定是她的照片或你们的合影


23 手机上的昵称一定是和别人不一样的,当你打给她时,她的姐妹看到会很羡慕。


24 在家帮她梳个幼稚的发型,然后叫她女儿。


25 如果出差一定带东西给她,虽然不贵,但证明你时刻都在想着她。


26 她坐上车,一定先为她拉上安全带,再为自己拉。


27 当她想要松开的时候一定再坚持抱她一会。


28 永远不会丢下她一个人,就算你无理取闹也一定要让她安全。


29 你心情不好的时候能同她说说,如果你不想说,就让你抱一下。


30 刚上的饭菜一定装作抢着吃的样子,多为她夹些。


31 当她无助时你能陪她爬爬山,看看夕阳。


32 吵架后绝对不冷战,哄她之后告诉她你是为她好。

33 睡觉的时候喜欢她抱着你,但当她背过身去一定也转身然后再抱她。

34 在她做家务的时候为她拍照,告诉她穿围裙的样子也一样很美。

35 如果她生病了一定细心照顾她,因为这时候她最脆弱,为她熬大大大补汤。

36 钱包里一定有她的照片。

37 下班回来一定会大声的说:老婆,我回来了。

38 半夜故意把被子往自己这边拉,让她离自己近些。

39 听她嘱咐我按时吃饭,多喝水多吃水果,说她罗嗦然后吻她。

40 打雷的时候把她揽到怀里睡,然后说:我怕怕。

41 帮她擦她吃东西留在嘴边的奶油的和果酱。

42 留一点点的胡渣在亲她的时候扎扎她。

43 在她的朋友面前细心的照顾她,让他们知道她的选择是对的。

44 在你的朋友面前细心的照顾她,不让她觉得你冷落了她。

45 有生之年陪她去趟她喜欢的城市或国家。

46 当她发呆,做饭,拖地或趴在阳台的时候,你会在身后揽住她。

47 不许她说对不起。告诉她这是圣旨。但可以用老公真好这四个字来代替。

48 即使是冬天,她说口渴你也会一溜烟下床帮她倒水,但回来她必须帮你暖身子。

49 当她钱包里钱不多的时候,你会拿给她说:帮我买双袜子,不用找了。

50 让她爱上你爱的游戏,让她爱上你爱的球队。

51 一起养只宠物。

52 在她能看到的地方写篇文章。

53 带她去游乐园,电影院,图书馆,博物馆,漫画展和小酒吧。

54 有一首关于我们故事的歌。每次去KTV都要唱。

55 当她要和你商量事情或说不开心的事的时候,一定放下手中的东西认真听。

56 如果有天她要离开你,你会挽留,也会放她走。告诉她受委屈的时候来找你。

57 抱着一颗感激的心和她相处,当你想发脾气的时候,你要学会忍耐。

58 下雨的时候打一把伞,迈一样的步伐踩水花不让天气影响她的心情。

59 去餐厅点她喜欢的菜,如果实在点不出就点没吃过的,一起喊好吃或难吃。

60 在你朋友和父母面前会夸赞她。不管她是否在场。

61 当她不理你时,就模仿她的动作、她的声音、她的表情、她撒娇时说的话。

62 送她回家一定把她送到门口,告诉她明天会来接她。

63 绝不在她面前盯着别的女人看,看A片绝不被她逮到。

64 总能随时变出一块她喜欢吃的糖。

65 如果你有一天出了意外,希望她能找个人替你爱她照顾她。

男人的心聲,女生們請聽好了

1.妳覺得自己胖那就是胖,不要問我們,我們拒絕回答。
2.不要剪去長髮,長髮永遠比短髮迷人。
3.不要冀望在生日、情人節、週年紀念發現完美禮物。
4.除非妳想討論打球、當兵、政治等話題,否則不要問我們在想什麼!
5.我們要一起出門時,妳穿什麼都很好穿什麼都很好,真的!
6.妳絕對有足夠的衣服了。
7.妳已經有太多鞋子了!
8.哭泣是恐嚇勒索的行為。
9.想要怎樣就直說吧!巧妙的暗示沒有用、強烈的暗示沒有用、明顯的暗示也沒有用,說 - 出 - 來 - 吧!
10.天知道今天是什麼日子?我們從來不在日曆上做記號!
11.「Yes」和「No」是對付所有問題的好答案。
12.不要爭論半年前我們討論過的,我們所有的對話均應在三天後自動失效。 1
3.妳若無法打扮成絕世美女,就不能期望我們表現得像最佳男主角。
14.如果一件事可以有兩種解釋,而其中一種令妳不舒服,那我們的意思是另外一種。
15.讓我們用眼睛瞟美眉吧,這是天生的!
16.妳可以告訴我們應該做什麼「或」妳希望怎麼做,不要同時說兩種。
17.有話盡可能在廣告時間內說完。
18.不要老是用蜜月期的標準來要求我們,蜜月期早就結束了!
19.我們永遠不會讀心術,缺乏這項能力並不能証明我們不關心妳。
20.當我們問妳「怎麼了?」而妳回答「沒事」,我們就當做沒事,即使明知妳在說謊,我們也絕不爭論!

Thursday, 29 November 2012

Be safe


Dear friends here are some tips for your safety.

At the Car park:
Do not walk towards your car.. Walk towards the next car or the car opposite.
Do lock your car immediately you get in and drive off ASAP. Please don’t check your cellphone, your makeup, etc.

At the ATM:
Use your ring finger to key in your pin, as the rest of the fingers will cover the keypad.
Do not count your money at the ATM. After all it’s not going to give you what it owes to you.

In a Taxi:
Pretend to make a phone call to your friend/husband informing them where you are, what time you are expected, the colour of taxi, taxi no etc. You must of course talk within earshot of the driver.

If you live Alone:
Do get some men’s clothing’s and shoes. Hang them out with your own laundry! Leave the men’s shoes outside your house.
Do leave radio/TV on.
Do be suspicious if you receive calls that seem to have got the wrong number.

If you have husbands who travel regularly:
Do drive his car when he is not around as opportunists will notice that his car is dusty and in the same spot for many days.

If you have children tell them:
Never to post photos of your new car on Facebook.
Never to reveal that they are ‘home alone’ or parents are away.

Also, get the telephone number of the police station in your area and list it as the first number in your phone contact list rather than list it under P. Calling 999 in an emergency will be a futile attempt.

Safety Gadgets:
1. Keeping a loud hailer at home would be more effective than screaming and shouting for help in an emergency.
2. Install sensor lights
3. Pepper spray - they have a shelf life. So you must check the expiry date otherwise it will fail you when you need to use it!
Capt. Bala recommends that pepper sprays must be
A. Water based
B. Must be US made with finger ring on the bottom
C. Must have double casing.
4. Alarm padlocks.
5. Throw some thumbtacks up the opening in the ceiling (what do you call that??) for those who live in link houses.
If you are ever, so unfortunate to have your bag snatched, do not struggle with the assailant.
Let go and do not chase after them. Neither should your husband/boyfriend/son.
When you drop your friend/loved ones home, especially those who live in apartments, get them to text you once they are inside the safety of their homes.
I think we should drill this in to our sons who drop off their girlfriends.
Please make sure you are not adding to this statistic.

1. Do not rush from work or to work. Breathe! Start early.
2. Put your valuables away, and carry less in your handbag. Get a debit card. Consolidate your banking accounts.
3. Forget about all these labelled bags until Malaysia gets peaceful again
4. Never talk on your cell phone, and I mean never when driving
5. Pay attention to pillion driver that operate in pairs. At traffic lights, keep a distance from the car in front of you. If they attack you, just swerve you car at them. HONK, HONK, HONK Loud…..they could have tailed you..
6. Try not to wear too much jewelry, I.e.. Big gold, flashy loopy earrings and long gold chain- you will be asking to be grabbed, and they will smash from the right
7. Avoid big gold bangles and expensive fancy watches
8. Keep a pair of sunglasses and wear them when driving, but not at night
9. Plan your diary well, smash and grab robbers attack people even when there are two of you in the car.
10. These robbers attack mostly from 7.00 to 10 am and also from 4 to 7.00pm. Peak, rush hours.

Cunning scammers


MOST OF US KNOW THERE ARE MANY SCAMS ABOUT BUT THIS IS GETTING VERY CUNNING

There is a new and clever credit card scam - be wary of those who come bearing gifts. Please circulate this. 


It just happened to friends a week or so ago in Sydney, and it can pretty well now be happening anywhere else in the world.


It works like this: 

Wednesday a week ago, I had a phone call from someone who said that he was from some outfit called: "Express Couriers" asking if I was going to be home because there was a package for me, and the caller said that the delivery would arrive at my home in roughly an hour. And sure enough, about an hour later, a delivery man turned up with a beautiful basket of flowers and wine. I was very surprised since it did not involve any special occasion or holiday, and I certainly didn't expect anything like
it. Intrigued about who would send me such a gift, I inquired as to who the sender is. The deliveryman's reply was, he was only delivering the gift package, but allegedly a card was being sent separately; (the card has never arrived!). There was also a consignment note with the gift.

He then went on to explain that because the gift contained alcohol, there was a $3.50 "delivery charge" as proof that he had actually delivered the package to an adult, and not just left it on the doorstep to just be stolen or taken by anyone.


This sounded logical and I offered to pay him cash. He then said that the company required the payment to be by credit or debit card only so that everything is properly accounted for.


My husband, who, by this time, was standing beside me, pulled his wallet out of his pocket with the credit/debit card, and 'John', the "delivery man", asked my husband to swipe the card on the small mobile card machine which had a small screen and keypad where Frank was also asked to enter the card's PIN and security number. A receipt was printed out and given to us.


To our horrible surprise, between Thursday and the following Monday, $4,000 had been charged/withdrawn from our credit/debit account at various ATM machines, particularly in the north shore area!


It appeared that somehow the "mobile credit card machine" which the deliveryman carried now had all the info necessary to create a "dummy" card with all our card details, after my husband swiped our card and entered the requested PIN and security number.


Upon finding out the illegal transactions on our card, of course, we immediately notified the bank which issued us the card, and our credit/debit account had been closed.


We also personally went to the Police, where it was confirmed that it is definitely a scam because several households have been similarly hit.


WARNING: Be wary of accepting any "surprise gift or package", which you neither expected nor personally ordered, especially if it involves any kind of payment as a condition of receiving the gift or package. Also, never accept anything if you do not personally know or there is no proper identification of who the sender is


Above all, the only time you should give out any personal credit/debit card information is when you yourself initiated the purchase or transaction!


Pass this on, it may just prevent someone else from being swindled by these scumbags.